“They refused to listen and failed to remember the miracles you performed among them. They became stiff-necked and in their rebellion appointed a leader in order to return to their slavery. But you are a forgiving God, gracious and compassionate, slow to anger and abounding in love. Therefore you did not desert them” – Nehemiah 9:17
Otou is the father-of-three. He and his wife Katayama Yumi live together in Nara, Japan. More than 20 years ago Otou stopped talking to his wife. He would talk normally to his children. And Katayama continued to love her husband and speak to Otou but to no avail - he would only nod or grunt in reply. It was a one-way conversation.
The bizarre problem came to light after the Japanese couple's 18-year-old son, Yoshiki, wrote into a TV show asking for help.
Yoshiki said he had never heard his parents speak since as far back as he can remember.
Speaking on the TV show, the father Otou explained his stubbornness for giving his wife the silent treatment.
He felt she was not giving him enough attention.
"When the kids were born my wife was very involved and busy in raising the kids.
I was kind of... jealous. I was sulking about it.”
Then in December 2016, the Japanese show plotted to fix the situation by arranging a meeting between them at the same park where they had their first date.
And the strange situation had a talkative ending.
After visibly struggling, Otou managed to utter a few words to his wife as they sat together on a bench in Nara Park.
Otou said: "Somehow it's been a while since we talked.”
With his stubbornness melting, the couple engaged in their first conversation in more than two decades.
The pair promised their future together wouldn’t be so quiet.
God’s love is stronger than our stubbornness. Today in prayer, praise the Lord that He loves us despite our stubbornness and is gracious and compassionate, desiring all people to come to Jesus for forgiveness.
“There are few people so stubborn in their atheism who when danger is pressing in will not acknowledge the divine power.” - Plato
God’s Word: “But because of your stubbornness and your unrepentant heart, you are storing up wrath against yourself for the day of God’s wrath, when his righteous judgment will be revealed.” – Romans 2:5
By Peter Kennedy, Copyright 2017, Devotional E-Mail
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